5 Body-Safe Sex Toys for Beginners
Like many of you, I’ve been watching How to Build a Sex Room on Netflix and I’m in love with people connecting to their sexuality more deeply and creating intentional ways to facilitate intimacy with their partners.
One thing I realized while watching the show is how many less sex toys most people own then I do! So, I decided to share my wealth of knowledge with you all and give you great options to start your collection.
When I was looking for a company to partner with, it was really important to me that I was able to pick a badass company doing good work that I believed in, which is why I went with Bellesa. Not only do they only use the highest quality, 100% body-safe premium materials, but they are constantly inspired by the AMAZING community they’re building and want to make sure that sex is fun, empowering and shame-free for EVERYONE. With our missions so closely aligned, who else could I have possibly chosen?!
Ok enough of me talking…I’m not trying to turn this into a weird recipe blog with 75 paragraphs before the recipe lol so, let’s get into it.
How could it be anything other than this epic staple. I’ve had a few iterations of this and always loved them. They provide wonderful stimulation for everyone. I love it all the time, alone, with guys, gals and non-binary pals. All around an absolutely staple I recommend for everyone’s collection.
For anyone even slightly into kink I recommend a nice little flogger. Personally, I think they’re wonderful for sensory & impact play. They might look a little intimidating but they’re pretty wonderful. There’s something so fun about both giving and receiving little love taps on your bum with a nice little flogger. This one is also made out of deep blue vegan leather so no animals were harmed in the making of it and it’s perfect to excite your senses. You can drag it across your body teasingly or…snap it a little quicker for something more spicy ;)
#3 We-Vibe
I love this toy for a VARIETY of reasons. One I love when my partner can control my pleasure, two I love public play. Walking around Target while my partner controls the toy from their app is just all of my favorite things at once. I definitely recommend this one even if you’re not into public play because letting your partner tease you can be a wildly fun experience.
#4 Perfect Plug
Ok so this one I’m not picking out for you because I think size and texture is SUCH a personal preference and I want you to pick one you feel comfortable with. Anal sex can be a lot, especially for a newbie, which is why it’s so important to do anal training before. It helps warm you up…so you’re not just jumping right in. It can also be super sexy to wear out when no one but your partner knows you’re wearing it!
#5 The Quiet Travel Partner
Why only play at home? I love having a cute little quiet travel companion. Use this alone or with your partner to add a little pleasure to your sexy time. This little one is compact and ergonomic and it fits perfectly in your fingers. This baby has 10 quiet but mighty modes available at the touch of a button and it’s totally waterproof. Your welcome & happy travels ;)